Saturday, October 26, 2013

Lessons from Harry Potter for These Tumultuous and Transitional Times: Lesson 6

Hagrid, given the task to retrieve one-year-old Harry from the wreckage of his home, arrived outside the Dursley’s house. Professors Dumbledore and McGonagall peek at the peacefully sleeping Harry inside the blanket bundle and see the lightning-bolt shaped wound on his forehead. There are two lessons here.


The first lesson is that Dumbledore entrusted Hagrid with this all-important task. McGonagall questions him about this; after all, Hagrid isn’t perceived as elegant or sophisticated in word and action. In fact, many, invested in ego, perceive Hagrid as bumbling. But Dumbledore states he would trust Hagrid with his life. Why is this?

Though Hagrid is not clever in ways that society (the ego-aspect) admires, he’s clever in his own way. But this isn’t the primary reason: Hagrid’s loyalty to those he cares about and the path of goodness he follows is. Dumbledore, because of his own history where a particular weakness caused him to seek power in a manner that eventually caused him great grief and regret, looks beyond appearances, beyond clever words and actions, and looks for what is really inside a person’s heart and mindset. Dumbledore also made his faith in Hagrid clear to him. It’s amazing what that can do to encourage, support, and nurture another.

This is a good reminder for us all not to judge a person by their appearances or outward demonstrations that Status Quo says are acceptable and admirable, but by who they consistently demonstrate themselves to be at their core. We are to witness their strengths and their weaknesses—with grace. We should apply this to ourselves, as well, so that we seek to be true to ourselves as we aim to be our best selves as we continue to evolve, rather than seek to appeal to the ego-aspect requirements others may impose on us. Hagrid didn’t concern himself too much with the opinions of others—or, at least, was selective about whose opinions mattered, so didn’t experience the insecurities and the affectations they can lead to that others experience. Hagrid was what many pursue: happy, content, and feeling he served a purpose appropriate for him.

The second lesson concerns Harry’s wound. McGonagall asks Dumbledore if he’s going to mend the wound so it doesn’t scar. He replies, “Even if I could, I wouldn’t. Scars can come in handy.” Dumbledore knew that some scars cannot be erased as though they never happened. He also knew—from experience—that scars can carry a personal power of their own. They can carry a significant magic of their own. It’s like that adage: “That which does not kill us only makes us stronger.” We should say “can” make us stronger. The choice is ours.

Harry’s scar was like a signpost or symbol of who he was, was to become, and what he would discover he was capable of. It was a visible representation of his own inner mystery. It also served him as a guidance system: He never forgot how he got it and at what cost. Considering his natural powers and those unintentionally given to him by Voldemort during his attack on Harry, Harry could just as easily have decided to use magic for self-aggrandizement and to have power over others—and for revenge. That scar re-minded him to choose the higher path, to choose love and loyalty, to be courageous even when terrified or feeling he wasn’t a match for someone he perceived as stronger or more skilled than he was, and to hold love and compassion in his heart rather than revenge and bitterness, especially at moments where his next choice would determine which direction he’d follow: one that led to self-destruction or self-salvation.

He never used his scar as a reason for others to pity him or as an excuse, but to guide him, inform him, and assist him on his path to his destiny. We would all benefit by looking at how we use or perceive the scars we’ve accumulated so far. Do we allow them to make us feel weak, or do we allow them to make us stronger? Do we fashion ourselves and our lives as Voldemort did, or do we become our own versions of Harry?

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